My kind Uncle Clifton has died just shy of his 91st birthday. “Kind” is the word that comes to mind when we all think of Uncle Clifton. He was just a nice man, patient and long-suffering. I didn’t know him well and only saw him once a year, but this is the impression I have of him. Although my family unit lived in Northwest Indiana, the rest of the larger family lived in Alabama, and we visited them every summer, usually for one week in June. We would drive down in our Ford Galaxy 500 and stay with our grandparents, Memaw and Granddaddy. Their house was home base, and the relatives would stop by for visits. We’d share big meals all the women would prepare, with dill pickles, cornbread, fried chicken, coleslaw and sweet tea. After some pecan pie, adults would sit at the kitchen table and play Rook, or they’d sit out under the backyard trees and smoke and whittle and swop stories, and the cousins would play games. I was the youngest of the cousins, considerably younger, so I didn’t a...